Release the Pressure to prove and rediscover the joy of living.

I help high-functioning women get off autopilot so they can make authentic choices to cultivate healthy relationships and a meaningful purpose.

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Maybe you’re not lazy, burned out, or powerless.

what if you’re just on autopilot?

If you feel DISCONNECTED

You automatically say yes, suppress your needs, or prioritize keeping everyone happy.

You’re people-pleasing.

If you feel EXHAUSTED

You stay perpetually busy to feel accomplished and push yourself to do everything all the time.

You’re performing.

If you feel STUCK

You constantly overthink and struggle to make decisions because you're afraid of getting it wrong.

You’re procrastinating.

These aren't character flaws. They're protective patterns.

And patterns can change.

Are You Living On Autopilot Quiz

You were never meant to earn your worth

Hi, I’m Kaley.

and I've been that high-functioning woman

I was responsible, capable, and dependable, while feeling exhausted, disconnected, and stuck. During ministry school, the Lord began using the story of Martha and Mary to show me something I desperately needed to learn:

I didn't have to live my life with the pressure to prove my worth.

So I got my PhD in Psychological and Counseling Studies and certification as a life coach to put language to what I was experiencing—which eventually led me to create the Four A's of Authenticity Framework: Awareness, Acceptance, Alignment, and Accountability so that I could help others do the same thing.

How to begin your joy journey

1. Start with a conversation

Schedule a call so we can talk about where you're feeling exhausted, disconnected, or stuck, answer your questions, and decide whether the Joy Journey is right for you.

2. Create your Plan

Together, we'll create an individualized plan to help you get off autopilot, release the pressure to prove, and address the areas of your life where you want more authentic connection and meaningful direction.

3. Build Your Toolbox

Leave each session with practical tools and intentional next steps you can use beyond coaching—so you can continue making authentic choices and cultivating a life that feels meaningful to you.

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How we get off autopilot

awareness

0 Identity, understanding values, strengths, gifts, motivations, and fears

Acceptance

0 Understand yourself without shame.

Alignment

0 Clarify what matters and make choices that reflect it.

accountability

0 Practice those choices in real life.

Testimonies of Hope

  • I learned of Joie De Vivre Coaching from a friend who raved about Kaley and encouraged me to reach out. I had hit a point in my life where I was mentally exhausted from feeling like a prisoner to my own thoughts, overthinking and people pleasing. From the initial call, Kaley made me feel understood, seen and confident that we would work through my goals together. Kaley gave me the most insightful feedback and practical tools so that I could get to where I needed to be mentally and emotionally. I am forever grateful for the wisdom Kaley imparted on me during our sessions and I have felt freer and stronger since. I took notes during every session and have found myself often referring back to what Kaley shared with me as it has helped reshape my mind positively. Kaley made me feel important as she checked in often in between sessions and always encouraged me to reach out if I needed support. In this last year, meeting with Kaley has been a highlight for me and I feel like a new woman since learning to free myself of the overthinking and people pleasing.

    -Suzanne M.

  • "I had trouble with work and direction which was causing a lot of stress and discouragement. I decided to reach out to Kaley to help me understand the situation better. Our session was incredibly eye opening as she took me through my strengths and identified where my frustrations, lack of motivation and stress came from. After identifying my strengths and key drivers I have felt empowered and enabled to understand and take responsibility for my needs in order to get them met in a healthy way so that balance can be restored. Our session was incredibly fruitful, and I am so thankful for her knowledge, wisdom, empathy and skill."

    -Rosie C.

  • "Recently, I took a break from working, and life coaching with Kaley was a key experience during this time. Kaley saw me through a strengths based perspective that was so helpful in creating a personal toolbox for my life. I always think back to the time she said, "Amazing, that is viable," when talking about my dreams because such a simple sentence transformed the way I saw what was possible for my own self. Her expert direction and encouraging nature made it a safe place for me to open up about where I'm at and where I'd like to be in the future. I'm 10/10 confident in recommending Kaley to anyone who is considering life coaching because of the leaping, invaluable gains it will leave them."

    -Amazing G.

  • “PRIOR TO WORKING WITH KALEY THERE WERE ASPECTS OF MYSELF THAT I NEVER QUITE UNDERSTOOD. BUT WITH HER COACHING, I FEEL MORE AWARE OF HOW I’M DESIGNED AND WHY I DO THE THINGS THAT I DO. NOW I AM BETTER ABLE TO IDENTIFY MY NEEDS IN PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL SITUATIONS THAT WILL LEAVE ME FEELING EMPOWERED AND FULL OF LIFE!”

    -Alisha H.

  • “I WORKED WITH KALEY ON THE STRENGTHS ASSESSMENT AND I LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT MYSELF. SHE EXPLAINED EACH STRENGTH TO ME AND ASKED FOLLOW UP QUESTIONS TO HELP ME DISCOVER NEW FACETS OF MY PERSONALITY. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS TO ANYONE WHO WANTS TO HARNESS THEIR STRENGTHS TO BE MORE PRODUCTIVE AND CREATIVE IN ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE.”

    -Hannah P.

  • “BEFORE I STARTED MEETING WITH KALEY, I WAS IN A PLACE OF FEELING STUCK AND THAT MY LIFE WAS NOT MOVING FORWARD HOW I WANTED IT TO. AFTER WE STARTED MEETING SHE HELPED SHOW ME WHAT MY STRENGTHS ARE AND HOW I CAN USE THEM IN MY LIFE NOW AND TO START MY FUTURE. SHE HAS HELPED ME GET A PLAN AND AN IDEA OF HOW TO MOVE FORWARD IN MY LIFE.”

    -Leah T.

I also work with young people.

Helping young people understand themselves, connect with others, and grow with confidence in their calling.

Through psychology-informed workshops, mentoring, coaching, and other youth experiences, I help young people explore:

Identity • Wellbeing • Relationships • Purpose

Whether it's a church youth group, school, or youth organization, I help turn psychology and personal development into experiences that are interactive, practical, and actually fun.

Click below to listen to my podcast, where I have honest, unfiltered conversations about the uncomfortable—but freeing—process of getting off autopilot and learning to live authentically.

The Uncomfortably Candid Podcast